Dreaming of Becoming a better man? Get Counselling
Every man has the ultimate goal of being the man. Nothing gives more satisfaction than breaking a leg figuratively at work. Having your boss and everyone around you applaud you for a job well done and getting a promotion or if you are running your own business breaking ground. Feeling appreciated by your own close family. It becoming clear to all around you that you are the man of means and they’d better acknowledge or not at all but that’s more like it. Then your thoughts are actually cut off and the reality you are living in sets in. The good things is, you can turn things around and the magic word is none other than counselling.
Everything you know about being a man goes like you can cry, men don’t do that, keep your problems to yourself that’s the real man way until life hands you mixed results with an A for anxiety and S for stress. It’s a good thing someone thought that you needed a safe space to de-stress and made a quiet place where you can just talk about you and cry all you want without making you feel like an idiot. To get everything back on track as the captain of this ship, your head needs to be straight and counselling puts a reset button to allow you to focus on what’s truly important, the big letter Y for you.
Having a clear head allows you to decide what needs to be dealt with in order of priority. The idea that you can very much be a jack of all trades only works in theory , practically being a master at what you do is what brings in all the goodies. In a perfect world ,worry wouldn’t exist and everything would be just great. Counseling is very much a fixer as it shows you how to bend with worry so that you don’t break and find a way around it if you can’t get rid of it. Kill stress and anxiety before they do it to you first.
Communication is much less what you say and everything to do with how you say it. Counselling helps you with your way of passing information such that whoever get’s it, receives it clearly but without feeling attacked. It will almost feel like you are half way there. Next move with counselling is they hand you a tool box with the tools you will need to go about life a day at a time. The change soon start to be visible and questions get asked whereby letting people in on your little secret becomes your choice. Counselling may not be everything but it can be quite something.